I just don’t get it! I’ve really tried to understand this whole Facebook phenomenon. I’ve tried to participate by accepting invitations, extending invitations, even writing a thing or two on people’s walls. I’ve taken quizzes that were sent to me. I’ve looked at people’s pictures and at who knows whom. I just don’t get it! Do you have to spend hours just going from one person’s page to the next checking out “what they’re doing right now?” When is the appropriate time to post what you happen to be doing at that exact moment? How often do you share that information? Who really cares? If I want to know what you’re doing, I’ll call and ask you or send you an e-mail. If you want to know what I”m doing, you can call and ask me. (I probably won’t answer the phone because I’m either busy doing something or I don’t feel like sharing what I’m doing! But you’re welcome to try!)
Just today, someone in China wrote on my wall “Kitty…..Really…..” Obviously, he’s responding to something that I wrote on his wall, but I checked back through his wall, and I can’t find anywhere where I wrote anything. Maybe he’s responding to something I wrote on someone else’s wall. Either way, I have no clue what his message means and no way to track it down. What kind of system of communication is that?
And no offense to those who are my age or older, but what in the heck are you doing on Facebook? It has to be like “new math,” something we’re not even supposed to understand! We’re not going to be young and cool no matter how many friends we have or how many people write on our walls. (What is a “wall” anyway?) Give it up!
I guess I’ll keep accepting friend requests since I don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings. After all, most of the people are already my friends anyway. Beyond that, I don’t know what else to do. I feel like I’ve entered a foreign world every time I get on Facebook, a world where one could waste hours and hours just finding out what everyone’s doing right now. In my opinion, they don’t need to post what they’re doing. If they’re on Facebook, they’re wasting the same hours I am!
May 13th, 2008 at 1:29 pm
Maybe we are all dying to be young again. I mean this stuff was not around when we were in school. I have a myspace page but hardly go to it or keep up with it…I am just quite unimpressed of those I went to H.S. with, it just proved to me they did not grow up or even change. But maybe if I had teenagers who were on it I could kinda keep track of their stuff by going to their page… anyway I agree with you.
May 13th, 2008 at 6:09 pm
Teenagers won’t help you! Mine told me that I’m not “allowed” to have a myspace page because I’m too old. I signed up for facebook but can’t find anyone that I know. And I agree with Kitty - who has time for all that! I’ll stick to email and cell phones. I’m still trying to figure those out. HA HA.
May 22nd, 2008 at 7:11 pm
I’ve changed my mind about facebook. I love it now. It just takes a little time to move around to different profiles to get the hang of it. I love finding old friends and reconnecting. Okay, I’m addicted! Come check me out…
May 26th, 2008 at 4:03 am
You young ladies are all confused. (Not that that surprises anyone woman from my generation!) It is the bathroom walls you are to be leaving messages on. That is they way we did it and so that has to be right. RIGHT?